Tag: pain

Finding "Faith" outside the walls of a church

The Honest Faith: The Dirty Little Secret

(Warning: NSFW, Possible triggers, 3000 word blog post, use of the word claptrap, Sex, Sex talk, too much information about the writer that you didn’t really want to know) I’m not going to get into the nitty-gritty of arguments about Biblical marriage. But I do want to talk about sex today. I could talk about…
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February 8, 2018 4

The Honest Faith: Rage Against the Machine

I am in pain. I admit that because it is the reason I write. I write so that I can somehow feel not so alone. I know the pain of loss. I’ve experienced this all too often. Outright rejections, racist comments, being fired from a job you loved, breaking up with someone you love, watching…
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February 2, 2018 0

Dear Son, On Pain and Growth

Dear Son, I’m blown away at getting to know you. You decided to be born three weeks early. It was a little unexpected, but nothing that we couldn’t deal with. After all we have been waiting for you since 2013. This is probably one of the hardest things for you to read, and for me…
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April 18, 2016 0

My Perspective…

WARNING: Super emotional post… You have been warned!     This started out as a venting post, about the things that really grind my gears, but then I found I was writing a rather long post about the miscarriages. So I decided instead I’m going to write about the husband’s perspective on this. My wife…
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May 8, 2014 1